Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Tips for Getting Baby to Sleep

By Liz Wiseman

If you are a new parent you are probably asking yourself the same question asked by parents since the dawn of time. How to get baby to fall asleep, and stay asleep long enough to get some rest yourself?

This is unfortunately one of those things you can't anticipate as you can with other milestones in your baby's life. You have read or heard from others when to expect her first smile, how to introduce her to solid foods and at what age she should roll over or sit up on her own. Ask when you can expect baby to give you that first night of more than two hours sleep at a time, and everybody's answers will likely be all over the map.

It is very important to start from day one in developing healthy sleep habits. Once everyone is getting to know the different signals, it will be that much easier to recognize those tell-tale signs that she needs to be put in bed.

In order to get baby accustomed to daytime noises, there is no need to worry about making noise during these hours. It's around two weeks of age this training between day and night is best started. Use daytime hours to play or sing with her while she is awake and alert, as well as going about daily tasks such as using the vacuum or washing dishes. This will help to get her accustomed to daily noise.

When your baby wakes during the night, it's time to reverse the routine. Minimal lighting, noise and other stimuli are necessary to teach baby that it's quiet time during the night. When he wakes for a feed, try not talking very much or being too animated and playful. He will soon realize daytime is for being awake and play; night is for sleeping and quiet.

Bedtime routines play a very important part in your quest to getting a bit more sleep. One thing that often helps is leaving bath time until right before bed. The warm water can be very soothing to your little one, as can the entire bathing process. Sometimes however, you may notice your baby getting too excited during bath time, which defeats the purpose of a calming experience. If this is the case with your little one, it might be a better idea to chance this to a morning ritual instead. Establishing new bedtime rituals such as soft music or story time may also help with this transition.

Outside of a bed time routine, there are still many babies who have challenges in regards to calming down to fall asleep. There are many thoughts and techniques on how to help your baby accomplish this.

One technique you can try once baby reaches about 6 weeks old is the crying down method. After making sure that she is not hungry, or any other possible issue that needs your attention, try letting her cry for a bit until she calms on her own. The initial amount of time for this is normally 5-10 minutes, but in the event that she is over-tired or over-excited it could take longer. Be prepared to wait up to 20 minutes for her to finally drift off into dreamland. If the crying persists and you have trouble ignoring it, try and wait 5-10 minutes before returning to her room. Keep the same procedure in motion until your baby quietly and calmly falls asleep on her own.

If the thought of letting your little one cry himself out, some other techniques are available to you. For example, you may prefer to watch and wait for the signs indicating clearly to you when baby is ready to fall asleep, but this may result in different bedtimes from one night to the next. Other parents may opt for lying down next to baby while gently touching and talking to them in order to provide baby with added comfort. Over time the parent moves a little further away, providing a little less interaction until baby can fall asleep without having a parent near them.

No matter what way you choose to approach it, babies are precious to their parents, but sleep is needed to properly care for them. With some handy tips and a lot of patience a pattern will eventually allow everyone to get a good night's sleep. - 15438

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